Nope I keep my credit cards in my name and spend whatever I want BUT IM the dollars and sense person in the relation ship so In my mind I have this system you see.
what I do is keep a weekly running tab in my head I can spend $35.00 a week or less( thats less than I spent smoking )and my dollar amount rolls over
for example if I buy 15.00 worth of juice this week and am eyeing an accessory I know I can roll over $20.00 to next week and have $55.00 to spend my husband doesnt give a crap because If he brings up what I spend I ll bring up what he spends .
Were happy this way .And I have the figures on the tip of my tongue.
I used to have a pretty bad addiction to buying antique ancore hocking fire king jadeite dishes THAT caused problems here lol
My husband never understood why I had to buy 12 $40 plates that nobody was allowed to touch .I was working on a place setting for 12 (need even numbers ) anyhow that was out of hand clearly .
How will they police it since Vapor evaporates and there is very little to no smell. In places like this, I just hit the stall in the bathroom like high school lol.