I'm with you. The high wattage vapors don't let me vape all day. My throat can't take it. My baby beast 0.4/ Q2 coils are set at 37 watts... Sweet spot for me... However, I remember the 11 watt days of higher ohm coils that worked great too
I think I've pretty much come full circle with the vape wattage thing. I put together some "hot" builds and pushed up the wattage for awhile. The initial blast of fog and flavor was impressive. I found that I got tired of that in a short while. I've pretty much settled back to builds from .25 to .3 Ω using between 40 and and maybe 60 watts. Mostly more around 40-45. I like the longer draws and with the newer mods with the adjustable initial wattage, I am getting a very pleasant vape. I really like longer more gentle draws letting the flavor build through the draw. I do understand however how some like the more powerful vapes.